- To get the group’s attention, never tap on a glass; simply stand, holding your glass in the air. Toasts should be offered standing, unless at a private, small affair or in a public restaurant.
- The person being toasted remains seated.
- Don’t hold your glass in the air during your toast. Set it down after you get their attention, make your toast, then raise your glass and ask the others to raise theirs for your formal, final words.
- Guests respond by taking a sip of their drink, not draining the glass. For those not drinking alcohol, toasting with water or a soft drink is acceptable. The person being toasted does not drink.
- The guest of honor often returns the toast, thanking the host for their kind words and then proposing a toast of their own to the host.
Toasting Techniques
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Jill,
I learned several things I didn’t know. Like don’t drink to your own toast. That would be awkward, now that I think of it. Also appreciated the fact that the person giving the toast sets their glass down during their talk – it gives the rest of the group the signal to do the same. Your insights are much appreciated and thank you for posting on Linkedin!
Thanks – Cheers.